Kids spend much of their days being talked to, talked at, or ordered around. The most empowering part in a Child’s routine is spending quality time with Parents. Therefore,Which of these ways would be most effective for building a good relationship ?

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47 thoughts on “Kids spend much of their days being talked to, talked at, or ordered around. The most empowering part in a Child’s routine is spending quality time with Parents. Therefore,Which of these ways would be most effective for building a good relationship ?

  1. In my opinion No: 2 embodies quite a lot. Many a times a child’s endless stream of questions can be tiresome, but it should be encouraged and we must participate.
    ‘wanting to know’ is a helpful exercise for any youngster, it means they realise that “there are things they don’t know and would like to know and do” This surely translates to taking in information and affection from us . In other words, they know how to learn better and pass it on in a similar manner to others through life, as good samaritans , while they are growing.

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  2. Building relationships in the classroom is an essential part of teaching . Having healthy teacher-to-student relationship is an effective way to help prevent academic failure, social conflict and quarrelsome behavior. For students to learn in an effective manner they need to feel comfortable, loved and accepted in their learning environment i think no. 5 is effective way to build a positive relationship as activities offer a rich context for structured learning as well as alternative teaching methods. Bringing material to life through news feeds, podcasts and streaming videos opens the classroom up to a wider world where students can start to see the value of learning.Increasing engagement through interactive education technology encourages students to become better learners, empowering self-initiated learning as they take an interest in what’s going on around them and actively seek to satisfy their own curiosities.

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  3. Children are somewhat like those unturned pots who teachers need to mold into fine textures. To look into how they should be treated, it is indeed important that they should be heard properly and the activities should meet their interest.

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  4. In my opinion no. 3 is highly recommended. Story telling is an important technique in the process of learning and understanding.
    The classroom context needs to create an atmosphere of motivational learning that is founded in part on a relationship between the students and teachers i.e formatted on the concept of mutual sharing of personal experience, values, beliefs.
    The student is better able to comprehend the course content while sharing a bond developing with classmates and the teacher.

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  5. In My Opinion all are important. Asking about child’s day at school.
    Practice patience,Applaud effort,Make time
    to listen,Encourage and appreciate questions,Express pride and delight.Let child be the teacher.
    Don’t impose.

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  6. In my opinion, point no 2 is very important. It is very important to teach children about their interest so that it will be easy for the child to take decisions in the future and also it will help them to set their goals.

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  7. I think no. 8 and no.2 are highly important.
    For no.8- Do crazy things with them. I am sitting in front of T.V. and watching HICHKI. I want to do crazy things with my children. I want to dance, run, chat. They learn many things while doing crazy things. I wish i would get some time to do craziness with them.
    For no. 2 i think its very important to teach them according to their interests. They can do wonders by puttings some efforts. After all they have minds, ability to do things differently.
    Regards.

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  8. According to me all points are equally important bcz sometimes students tell us their interest, sometimes they want extra knowledge related to world…our country, this is our moral duty to tell inspirational stories, we should make our lesson interested so that every student take interest and give response, sometimes we can share our experience, we should also tell about apologize students should know if they make mistake as they should admit.

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  9. I feel all the points are very important. Dealing with children is not easy these days. They have their time.
    So at times they feel to talk about their interests. They feel to do crazy things. Parents should be with them when they need them. They should be able to guide and look after them. Talking and sharing should be practised everyday.

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  10. Building a strong relationship with the children happens only when we talk to them, spend time with them, share our experiences, go for outings, be by their side when they need us, trust them. This creates a strong bond in the relationship. I feel spending quality time with children is the most important followed by all other points.

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  11. Students are very near to their teachers after their parents and a teacher have a capacity to change the behavior of their students. According to me all these questions given above are equally important.In teaching we should teach students from all aspects so that they can easily solve their problems and change their behavior.

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  12. Parenting is the most challenging task in today’s time. A parent cannot be given a job card to implement tasks and be successful. An effective parent has to spend time with children, talking to them, telling stories,sharing things from their own lives, playing with them and becoming a child so as to understand them well and then be able to guide them to the path that is exclusively made for them.

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  13. Parenting is not an easy task as children are sensitive to their surroundings. They observe a lot and are the best judges. To build a good relationship with them, we need to talk to them, listen to them, play with them, spend quality time with them and on the top trust them.

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  14. I think every point is having its own importance to make a good relationship and for quality time but i think point no.9 is very important ,always be aware for the interests of children .Parents should give adequate time to their children ,should be engaged in their games ,study.Parents should check their note books ,home work etc daily.They should know their schedule,their likes or dislikes in food .

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  15. In my opinion 1,4 8, 10 points are important .A strong relationship always build up when you spend quality time . The time when a child is free to express his thoughts and free to accept your thoughts . When you keep on talking about positive things ..it has great impact somewhere . Adding on to it , Your child knows someone is there with him/her . This too gives the strength to achieve anything in life .

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  16. Acc.to me all points are equally imp.to build a strong relationship with them & for their all-round development .When we share different experiences of our life with them it will help them to take decisions at different levels,when we engage them in different activities they will learn many things,when we give importance to their interests they will feel more concerned… If we apoligize for our mistake they will also learn how to admit it…

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  17. According to me 2nd one is highly important. If we discuss about children’s interest it’ll be helpful in their future also. Moreover they contain take decisions of their own.

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  18. Build relationships with kids is essential part of teaching. All the points are equally important.But point no 2 teach them according to their interest is more important. At that time students are more engaged and they can share easily and quickly understand what is right and what is wrong. Telling stories is also important. Its my personal experience students are easily understand the concept that how we can achieve our goals.They are easily motivate from other stories and set up their mind that we can do it.

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  19. According to me all points are equally important to build a strong relationship with the kids. With the help of these points we come to know about the child’s psychology in a better way. Their way of observing things, expectations from us, their dreams and how to fulfill those dreams, what they expect from their teachers as well as from their parents. To make them successful in life we teach them from our own experiences so that they can achieve their targets. That’s why all points are very much important.

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  20. All ways are equally good and effective also. But I think no. 5,7,9 are more effective. Sharing inspirational stories from our life and engaging in activities with them are really helpful in building relationships with children.

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  21. I think 1,7 and 8 point is more important .Let the child take the lead and follow along with however they play. This will really boost confidence and establish good relationship.Spending quality time with kids deepens relationships, creates memories, and makes them feel important and loved.

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  22. Greetings for the day! Yes, I’d second Ekta Ma’am to say that parenting is a very challenging task these days. The reason being both the parents are working and there’s hardly much time to be spent with the kids and the moment the kids qualify their 10+2, they shift to either another state or another country to live their dreams. So, as much time the parents get to be spent with their kids, it must be the quality time. I can say confidently that out of the suggested ten points , no point can be ignored. Yes – sometimes we must allow our kids to teach us, train us, guide us…they would love to do this and so would you. Then one must certainly narrate the incidents of personal life to motivate them not to humiliate them by comparing by saying when I was your age I was quite active and smart…rather show them how efficient they are than you when you had been their age. This does not mean to pamper them. Then tell them stories to inspire as well as to tell them in order to acquaint them with the ways of life. Prepare them for the upcoming challenges in life they may have to face in a constructive way. Chill with them, enjoy with them and re-live your childhood with them…after all it cannot be denied we all have a child in us…bring that child out when you play with them.

    Ritika Rana

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  23. All points are equally important but according to me no.2,5 are most important.acc to no.2 teach your child to about their interest so that the child will take right decisions in their life.Acc to no.5 your child wants to be just like you, so engage your self in their every activity and work. Working together builds not only your relationship, but also confidence and competence. Making things together — setting the table and crafting particular objects with the recipient in mind — are both bonding activities and a lot of fun. Treat your child the way you would treat your best friend.

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  24. All the points are equally important to build a strong relationship with kids . We can use all these points day bye day . We can talk about their interests . It will help them to improve their skills . We can use their interests in lesson it will create curiosity in kids.

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  25. It takes a lot of effort to fully attend to another human being, but when we are really present with our child, we often find that it energizes us and makes us feel more alive, as being fully present with anyone does. Being close to another human takes work. I believe all points are important,but point no.2,3,4 are of great value.

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  26. Acc to me it’s important to teach children about their interests so that it will be easy fr them to take decisions in future. Moreover we should spend quality time with children.We should talk with them,play with them. This will build strong relationship.

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  27. I think every point is having its own importance to make a good relationship and for quality time but i think point no.9 is very important ,always be aware for the interests of children. In my opinion all points are important but point no.2,3,4 are of great value.

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  28. All the points are equally important to build a strong relationship with kids .With the help of these points we come to know about the child’s psychology in a better way.According to me 2nd one is highly important. If we discuss about children’s interest it’ll be helpful in their future also. Moreover they contain take decisions of their own.

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  29. I feel all the points are very important. With the help of these points we come to know about the child’s psychology we should teach students from all aspects so that they can easily solve their problems and change their behavior.

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  30. All points are equally important.We can use all these points day by day.Spending quality time with kids .Try to know their interests . It will helpful in their future also. So we can easily solve their problems and change their behaviour.This will build strong relationship.

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  31. Point 2,5,10 are the most important according to me ….. If we engage them in our activities then at the same time we spend good time together so if sometimes u missed out to give time to them just say sorry do that they should know how much care and love u wanted to give actually.so try to understand ur child’s psychology and treat as well.
    Regards pooja gautam

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  32. Somehow all are equally important to build relationship with students but I feel no.2,5 and 7 are more feasible and might have effective learning.

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  33. It takes a lot of effort to fully attend to another human being, but when we are really present with our child, we often find that it energizes us and makes us feel more alive, as being fully present with anyone does. Being close to another human takes work. But 90% of people on their deathbed say that their biggest regret is that they didn’t get closer to the people in their lives. And almost all parents whose children are grown say they wish they had spent more time with their kids.so doing crazy things and spending time is good

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  34. According to me all are important like spending quality time with students, deal with them like a friend and sharing our daily life experiences with them help them to become a good human being.

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  35. I feel all the points are very important. With the help of these points. we come to know about the child’s psychology.. It will helpful in their future also.It will helpful in building relationships with children.

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  36. All ways are equally good and effective also. But I think no. 5,7 are more effective. Sharing inspirational stories from our life and engaging in activities with them are really helpful in building good relationships with students.

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  37. In My Opinion all are important to build a strong relationship with kids. If you want to see your students really engaged about something, let them participate. And not only after you distribute the tasks but from the very beginning. Ask them for input on the subject that will be presented, which resources will be used and how they will be evaluated. Increasing engagement through interactive education technology encourages students to become better learners.

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  38. I feel ,all the points mentioned above may prove helpful to build a better relationship between kids and elders but the the one which can happen to be much beneficial is Point No 1.It is so because when we talk to a child on the topic except study,they miraculously respond much better.They become more engaged..more active.They pour in much ideas then.

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  39. I feel ,all the points mentioned above may prove helpful to build a better relationship between kids and eldersBut I think no. 5,7,9 are more effective. Sharing inspirational stories from our life and engaging in activities with them are really helpful in building relationships with children.

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  40. In my opinion all points are important .We have to spend some time with our kids.We have do discussion on general matters with them so that we can understand there thinking ability and there psychology to deal with different matters.If we spend time with them ,then only they are able to share there problems and feelings and that very necessary in growing children.

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  41. According to my opinion “Remember and Share things about their lives” (No. – 3) is most effective. Story telling is an important technique in the process of learning and understanding. The classroom context needs to create an atmosphere of motivational learning that is founded in part on a relationship between the students and teachers i.e formatted on the concept of mutual sharing of personal experience, values, beliefs. The student is better able to comprehend the course content while sharing a bond developing with classmates and the teacher.

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  42. According to me all these points given above are equally important.In teaching we should teach students from all aspects so that they can easily solve their problems and change their behavior.

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  43. According to me all these points given above are equally important. To build a good relationship with them, we need to talk to them, listen to them, play with them, spend quality time with them and on the top trust them.

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  44. All points mentioned above are equally important and plays a vital role but in my opinion point no 1 governs other 9 points because when we talk to kids except studies they become more friendly and shared their daily routine. We can fill the gap by doing general talk to them and create confidence.

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  45. According to me all points are equally important. A teacher does not only teach a particular subject or text but also he/she teaches the other matters or subjects which may be not related with their subject but which are very close to their lives.A excellent teacher always keep all these points in his/her mind during teaching.It is the demand of our modern era a teacher must be all rounder .He/she must open his/her all senses every time for the over all development of the students.

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