Charisma can be learned: How to be the person who lights up a room.Charisma – that beautiful quality that lights up a party, an office, a silver screen. The dictionary defines charisma as, “compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire devotion in others.” People with charisma tend to project calmness, self-confidence, assertiveness, honesty, authenticity, enthusiasm and, almost always, they have excellent communication skills. These traits are supported by positive body language transmitted through their posture, facial expressions, eye contact and hand movements.Which of these 9 Steps according to you could skyrocket your allure towards becoming more Charismatic ?

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50 thoughts on “Charisma can be learned: How to be the person who lights up a room.Charisma – that beautiful quality that lights up a party, an office, a silver screen. The dictionary defines charisma as, “compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire devotion in others.” People with charisma tend to project calmness, self-confidence, assertiveness, honesty, authenticity, enthusiasm and, almost always, they have excellent communication skills. These traits are supported by positive body language transmitted through their posture, facial expressions, eye contact and hand movements.Which of these 9 Steps according to you could skyrocket your allure towards becoming more Charismatic ?

  1. In my opinion No: 1 & 7 hold greater importance .If you tend to be more of the low-key observer-type personality, you may be thinking that you don’t want to being that person whose presence lights up the room. Not to worry, there’s more to it than an outgoing personality. Studies conclude that present-day charismatic leaders are supportive, sensitive, nurturing, and considerate

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  2. In my opinion No: 1 & 7 hold greater importance.If you haven’t given much thought to the energy and image you project, you are missing a golden opportunity to establish your personal brand, among other valuable considerations. Followers trust and respect leaders who display moral conviction . Respect is the cornerstone of effective, even powerful, leadership, so it’s important to earn the respect of others.

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  3. In my opinion No: 1 & 7 hold greater importance.If you tend to be more of the low-key observer-type personality, you may be thinking that you don’t want to being that person whose presence lights up the room. Not to worry, there’s more to it than an outgoing personality. Studies conclude that present-day charismatic leaders are supportive, sensitive, nurturing, and considerate.

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  4. According to me point no… 4,1,7 are having their own importance. A charismatic person appear confidence in communication as well to help others feel confidence. Charismatic people always smile naturally and are more confident in a positive way without being egotistical . Charismatic person show interest with energy and enthusiasm . People give respect , when charismatic person is genuine and having ability to take initiatives to stand up ourself without hesitation.

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  5. I beleive that no matter your situation in life and your individual aims, one of the most important tools for success is your personal charisma. Charisma is what allows you to command a room, draw others to you, and convince people of your ideas. It’s an essential part of being the kind of leader who wins devoted followers who are willing to go to the ends of the earth for you. Charismatic person will remain positive and perceived as both likeable and powerful, a dynamic, irresistible combination that opens endless doors to them.so i believe that no 7 is essential to be more charismatic .

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  6. According to me point no 1,3 and 7 are very important. To always stand up for yourself and stay positive is the best way to develop and improve our charisma.

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  7. A charismatic personality can seem like a singular force—think of famous politicians at the podium or business magnates at the head of the conference table. Yet charisma’s most fundamental power may lie in the effect it has on everyone else: It can help rouse followers and employees to band together in pursuit of goals, infusing collective efforts with a sense of meaning and purpose. That’s not to say that charisma is anything magical. If a leader lacks other important skills or sensibilities, compassion for example, the power to charm and captivate might steer us in the wrong direction. So above mentioned all points are up to mark.

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  8. Charisma is an important trait that an individual acquires through experiences. We should be positive in our thinking. We should always stand by truth and respect others opinions. According to me points 1,3 and 7 are important.

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  9. Charisma is the total effect shown by an individual with combination of interpersonal skills and your personality as well.it keeps on developing with experiences too.charisma is the total effect shown to others when they want themselves to be like you and keep on gaining positivity and energy too.points 1,3,4,7are quite essential to be charismatic. A charismatic person is just like a glowing lamp keeping on giving light to others.

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  10. All these points are considerable… To me points 1,2,3 and 4 are more important… Being natural is the top most quality of a person… And when we listen to others point of view, we will gain their confidence… A charismatic person posses a smiling face always.. never mind.. whichever phase he is going through and confidence reflects through his /her body language

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  11. charismatic person can not only appear confident in communication, but they can also help others feel confidence too, thus aiding and enhancing the communication process. Charismatic people are confident in a positive way, without being boastful or egotistical.According to me all the points are complementary to each other.

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  12. Chairsma boils down to presence. I believe Charisma is something you learn not something you are born with, inorder to be chairsmatic person should possess a high degree of self confidence and create goals for all aspects of life therefore person should be postive all the time no matter what the situations or circumstances are, for me Point No 7 is having much more importance be postive even chips are down as all points are complimentary .

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  13. A charismatic person can not only appear confident in communication but they can also help others feel confidence too. Charismatic people are confident in a positive way, without being boastful or egotistical.
    So according to me Point 1&3 are most important .

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  14. For becoming more charismatic I will go with point no.1,2,3 & 7. Be genuine & don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself. Silence is fine when we have nothing to say.Treat people with respect & listen them carefully. Be positive in every situation.

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  15. I believe that smile is that one thing which can change the whole environment around you .
    Respecting people around you will make you respected back in higher amounts.
    So point 3,4 holds great importance among all the above listed .

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  16. According to me points 1,2, 3, 4 and 7 are important.
    Charisma is an important trait . We should always stand by truth and respect others opinions. We should be positive in our thinking and think before speak.

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  17. According to me,point no.1 and 9 are very important to be more charismatic.Always be genuine and yes ,of course we should never be afraid to stand up for ourselves,it will predict that you are right ,confident .For point no .9,i want to share one example,A teacher who prepares his/her lecture before going to a classroom will be more confident,comfortable and he /she can easily clear the doubts of students .On the other side ,a teacher who goes to classroom without proper preparing his/her lecture will be easily confused on any query.So always prepare yourself properly,you will be more impressive.

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  18. According to me no. 1,3,7 are most important points to devolp charisma.Stand up for ourselves and others also, treat everyone with respect and always stay positive and calm are the key points of developing charisma.

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    1. Charismatic people are very good at showing their true emotions when this works to their best advantage. Charismatic people are interesting: others want to listen to what they have to say. This is partly because they have interesting things to say—such as a compelling vision—and partly the way that they communicate.

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  19. All the above said characteristics are indispensable to be charismatic. A person’s impression, attitude, his positivity, the way to carry herself and most important shows herself with confidence make her a fine personality.

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  20. In my opinion, pt. 1,3,7are more important to become charismatic, we need to be genuine for our deeds and never afraid to stand up for ourselves and others.we should deal people respectfully with positive attitude and honesty.

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    1. I think as a Counselor you must be sure that – Emotions are charismatic. Focused emotions are very charismatic. To lead people with charisma, you need to take charge of and focus your emotions while dealing with the students of all age groups.

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  21. All points are valuable.. But most important points are 1,2,3and4..because if u take stand for yourselve it shows importance of your self respect in eyes of you… And silence and smile is the key of success… You can remain silent if you do not have any thing to say people will respect you for this…

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  22. Greetings for the day! Being charismatic and having a magnetic effect has always been a temptation among human beings. Everybody wants to be liked, appreciated and sough after by others. Above listed all the ten points are quite apt to be a charismatic personality – Thinking twice before saying anything, helping others unconditionally and listening to others’ problems…very true.

    Ritika Rana

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  23. Charismatic people always smile .They show interest with energy and enthusiasm . People give them respect.Charismatic people are confident in a positive way, charismatic person is just like a glowing lamp keeping on giving light to others.

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  24. In my opinion No: 1 & 7 hold greater importance. Charismatic person will remain positive and perceived as both likeable and powerful, a dynamic, irresistible combination that opens endless doors to them.

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    1. Style is an expression of individualism mixed with charisma.Charisma is not just saying hello. It’s dropping what you’re doing to say hello.

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  25. According to me point no. 2 is very important, think before you speak because delay is a tremendous remedy for anger. Charismatic individuals express their feelings spontaneously and genuinely. This allows them to affect the moods and emotions of others. We all know charismatic people who seem to “light up the room” when they enter. They typically express positive affect, but they can also stir us up when they are angry or irritated. One of the Bible’s simplest yet most profound answers for our anger comes in Proverbs 29:11 :”Stupid people express their anger openly, but sensible people are patient and hold it back.”

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  26. In my point of view no.1 , 2& 3 are important bcz if you stand for you it shows positivity and self respect.If we give respect to others they will give respect in return.Charismatic people have positivity.

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  27. As per my opinion point no 1,3,7 are of great importance. A genuine person who is full of positivity can be a source of inspiration for others. Respecting others’ views and listening to them is another trait which makes us impressive.

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    1. When you put together deep knowledge about a subject that intensely matters to you, charisma happens. You gain courage to share your passion, and when you do that, folks follow.

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  28. Charisma is the total effect shown by an individual with combination of interpersonal skills and your personality as well.it keeps on developing with experiences too.charisma is the total effect shown to others when they want themselves to be like you and keep on gaining positivity and energy too.points 1,3,4,7are quite essential to be charismatic.

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    1. Charisma can inspire others. We as teachers plays important role in students lives. Being their role model our first step is to bring all above mentioned points in ourselves.

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  29. According to me point 1,6,9 is more important.Charismatic people have nothing to prove. They impress because their effort is effortless. They care about others. They are kind. They are optimistic. They are fun to be with. They are interesting. They own their gifts and are OK with who they are. They strive to be a first-rate version of themselves, not to be a popularity queen or a second-rate version of someone else.

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  30. Rightly quoted ‘Charisma is the fragrance of soul’. It is something that starts within us. Almost all the points mentioned above go hand in hand to bring this charismatic approach in one’s personality. But point no. 4 is the most important of all the traits mentioned above.

    You know, everybody likes a smiling a face .One should wear it always. It does not cost anything but brings you joys in numerous ways. It eases the challenging situations. So adore it and add more charm and grace in this beautiful world. Believe me, you will conquer the world with your cheery demeanor.

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    1. It’s a special power that some people have naturally that makes them able to attract attention and admiration.
      Keeping a smiling face always is the best option among all.

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  31. Point no. 5 makes much appeal to me to bring charisma I one’s approach .One should remember the names of others and call them from their named frequently. I think by practicing it one can generate the feel if oneness .And I guess that is very important to go on in this world.

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  32. Treating people with respect makes a deep impact on others We should regard them..value them and make them feel special. At the same time we should have patience in ourselves .We should give them the time to express themselves .They should be allowed to outpour their view point properly .This trait is very important to me to be charismatic. So point no 3 is the most important to follow.

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  33. According to charismatic people always spread positive energy because of these people everyone learn to take negative things in positive way and solve it.
    They spread energy that cultivates into new hopes and paves the way leading to the visible outcome or success.
    Regards
    Pooja Gautam

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  34. According to me, point no 4 is really important and at the top priority of being charismatic. It help the personext to be positive and shows the ways to tackle the most challenging sit up tons.

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  35. To me points 1,2,3 and 4 are more important… Charismatic individuals express their feelings spontaneously and genuinely. Silence and smile is the key of success.

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  36. As per my conviction, these days listening to other’s viewpoint has become a challenging job for us. I truly feel that to be a christmatic personality is all about respecting others the same way you want respect for yourself therefore respecting other’s perception and at the same time standing for yourself is something a sort of charm for me which Noone can resist

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  37. In my opinion No: 1 & 7 hold greater importance.If you haven’t given much thought to the energy and image you project, you are missing a golden opportunity to establish your personal brand, among other valuable considerations.

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