Personal boundaries are the mental, emotional, and physical walls we create to protect ourselves from being used, manipulated, or violated by others. If you constantly feel controlled, pressured, manipulated, coerced, bullied, or dominated by others, learn how to reclaim your power. It is your BIRTHRIGHT.

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103 thoughts on “Personal boundaries are the mental, emotional, and physical walls we create to protect ourselves from being used, manipulated, or violated by others. If you constantly feel controlled, pressured, manipulated, coerced, bullied, or dominated by others, learn how to reclaim your power. It is your BIRTHRIGHT.

  1. To protect ourselves from being used, manipulated, or violated by others, an individual needs to express himself/herself fearlessly. In this era, even a dumb mouth needs to carry a tongue to escape from this cruel world. And there is no shame into this since it is a demand of the moment. Otherwise these materialistic people who have no time for emotions, sentiments, will not let you live.

    All the points mentioned above, I strongly support to lay the foundations for personal boundaries for a person. One must speak when you feel you are not treated well. There is nothing wrong into it. Sometimes things come across in a bitter way but at least you don’t feel bad for yourself. One needs to be honest with oneself. This world is never going to happy with you. They will have problem with you now and then. Then why to disturb your peace of mind for the sake of others. Do justice to yourself. Rest of the things will come on the track over the period of time.

    And the most importantly if you can’t speak for yourself, don’t expect/ask for it from others.

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  2. Expression of ideas are important for a being to get success in life. One should not be told, commanded and manipulated by others. One should use his/her own wisdom to take decisions on life.

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  3. Personal boundaries helps an individual to be socially , mentally and physically well. This communicates to preserve self respect. According to me Point no 1 means a lot to me. You need the courage and confidence to speak when mistreated. This will boost your inner strength. You should understand right and wrong. If any one has mistreated you for a wrong reason, you need to to speak up. Make the other person understand your thoughts. Kind words helps to bridge differences.

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  4. It is essential to have personal boundaries in order to have healthy relationships. Personal Boundaries are important because they set the basic guidelines of how you want to be treated. Boundaries are basic guidelines that people create to establish how others are able to behave around them.

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  5. Well, in my perspective 8th bullet can surely be a sign of lacking personal boundaries which means that a person is not open to share a particular subject with his family and in order to relieve oneself from its stress we unconsciously disclose over details of our life with other which can even include a stranger!

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  6. To protect oneself from being exploited, bullied or dominated in any way is to speak up when they are being pushed to all these coz generally, it will continue untill they raise their voice and according to me there is no harm in setting personal boundaries in any front of life whether be personal or professional. So, speak up when mistreated is the key for me.

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  7. Personal boundaries are guidelines, rules or limits that a person create to identify reasonable, safe and permissible ways for other people to behave towards them and how they respond when someone passes those limits.The ability to know our boundaries generally comes from a healthy sense of self worth, or valuing yourself in a way that is not contigent on other people or the feelings they have towards you.

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  8. Expression of mind in the form of two way communication is way productive than judging people around without any solid logic.Peace of mind comes when you are not suppressed especially when you want express your viewpoint and of course it hampers mental development.if People try to suppress you without your mistake,it is always a good idea to speak for yourself.The most dangerous scenario is one way communication hence if you are exploited or mistreated, you yourself have to set your boundaries where people have to listen and you also should listen others.
    There is nothing right or wrong its just a diverse view point.

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  9. If someone is mistreated he or she sud speak boldly fearlessly…never accept wrong in any condition….Set some boundaries….becoz people will treat u as the way u want to be treated….Value the right one

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  10. To have personal boundaries to protect our self respect is essential for our mental and physical well being. And most essential thing in keeping personal boundaries is to speak up whenever you feel you are judged or treated wrongly. Root cause of you being mistreated is when you stay silent and keep on enduring harassment rather than showing your resentment. You may have to pay price for it but that’s the only way to go about it.

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  11. As far as my perspective goes,a lack of personal boundaries can result in feelings of being worthless, weak, or not good enough. In other words, our self-esteem is severely impacted and we might struggle with issues such as chronic self-doubt or self-loathing. Not being able to voice our truth and communicate our needs in a clear way can be deeply distressing.Personal boundaries are essential in present era.

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  12. According to me you decide who to allow into your life. if you grow resentful of people who take up too much of your energy. it’s a sign you aren’t setting clear boundaries. Establish clear physical,emotional, and financial boundaries.

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  13. All the points mentioned above, I strongly support to lay the foundations for personal boundaries for a person. One must speak when you feel you are not treated well. There is nothing wrong into it.

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  14. According to me if we feel that we are getting dominated by others then it’s our foremost duty to speak against their thinking about us and clarify their misunderstandings there and then. You should have the courage and confidence when mistreated by others.

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  15. According to me point no 2 and 7 are important.Sometimes ,it becomes difficult to decide a situation and we give away so much time.We always think about other opinion while doing anything ,rather we have to live our life depending upon our own principles and conditions .

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