Optimism is something to strive for, but the good news is you don’t have to be an unrealistic Pollyanna to reframe your point of view and become a more positive person. In fact, it’s important to embrace the darker aspects of a situation in the process. Now, while learning, how to be a happier as well as a positive person. is more challenging for some than others, anyone can pick up the skills required to get there. Whether you’re looking to simply leave everyday melancholy behind, stay motivated at work, improve on your relationship, or become more confident. There are various tips which can train your brain to look on the bright side. Which one would you like to adopt from the given checklist, to change your life in this process?

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83 thoughts on “Optimism is something to strive for, but the good news is you don’t have to be an unrealistic Pollyanna to reframe your point of view and become a more positive person. In fact, it’s important to embrace the darker aspects of a situation in the process. Now, while learning, how to be a happier as well as a positive person. is more challenging for some than others, anyone can pick up the skills required to get there. Whether you’re looking to simply leave everyday melancholy behind, stay motivated at work, improve on your relationship, or become more confident. There are various tips which can train your brain to look on the bright side. Which one would you like to adopt from the given checklist, to change your life in this process?

  1. According to me surrounded you with positive people, have tight faith in yourself we must not compare ourself with others and help other people.in their needs
    When you have faith in your self you will feel enjoying your work and we will be happy with that.

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  2. According to my opinion,
    Help others .
    Have more patience .
    are helps to create positivity in our surroundings… Postivity comes only when we are positive and have patience.. It’s very essential because sometimes we make decisions in hurry that decision is not better for us.. Have patience.
    Always helps to others…
    That will help to generate a good relationship… Also create a positivity in our life.

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  3. Always Be happy… Whatever the situation in our life that is not permanent… We can enjoy our life whether it is good or bad… It’s depends upon us not on situation…
    Start enjoying a moment of life ..
    🙂🙂…It will give positivity which helps to see the situation in different manner…
    Always smiling..

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  4. In my opinion, keeping yourself more connected to optimistic people is the most important thing we can do. Maintaining distance from people who prefer negative thoughts, find faults in everything, show reluctance to change and improve will stabilize our positive perspective.
    Secondly, comparisons with others, thinking that others are way better than us is also wrong. Everyone is good in one or the other way. Just we have to pick good things about others that help us to become better than what we are. Positivity for me is a journey from GOOD TOWARDS BETTER.

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  5. In my opinion ,surrounding yourself with positive people will lead to happy and successful life.
    The most successful people are those who have a happy, healthy and positive approach to life.Happiness and positivity influence success. Don’t get me wrong, there is much more to it being successful in business and in life than that. However, with that said, generally, those who are happy and healthy in themselves, both physically and emotionally are often more successful. Feeling down, unhealthy and sluggish will only leave you feeling super unmotivated and pretty darn rubbish. When you feel good, you feel unstoppable. It’s like having a permanent ‘spring’ in your step, all year round!
    ” They’ll inspire you – and you’ll inspire them right back”
    You want to surround yourself with people who you love, who you are inspired by and who you can look at and think, ‘wow – they’re great and that’s why they’re in my life.’ Whether you work at home by yourself or in an office full of people, having people who inspire you, fuels your fire and your desire to be a better you. If you are surrounded by people who you constantly find yourself rolling your eyes at, you’ll have no desire to grow or be more, you’ll most likely find yourself sinking into a bit of a slump and you’ll just flat line as a result. Soar don’t settle.
    Being good is good for the soul. Choose to surround yourself with ‘good’ people, people that choose to support good causes, people that obey the law, people that are kind. This kind of relates to point one, if you surround yourself with people that do good deeds, are kind to others, care for the environment and other causes that you care about yourself, you will find yourself becoming a better person for it. If you surround yourself by people who are careless, thoughtless, break the law, litter etc you’ll find this will slowly begin to encroach on your lifestyle. Don’t let it. Being good doesn’t mean being boring, it means being a better person.
    Positive people are grateful. Be grateful. Many successful people often say that gratitude is the key to success. Reflect upon what you are grateful for. Are you grateful for your friends? Your family? The opportunities life has given you? There is so so so much to be grateful for, from the littlest of things to more significant.
    I feel grateful each and every day to have some of the most inspirational, good and positive people around me who are each hugely successful in their own way.

    Regards
    Geetanjli Gulati

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  6. I would go for 1,5,8 points of view ☑️Life is really refreshing when we spend time with people who don’t waste time and energy complaining? We can almost feel our spirits lifting around someone who is willing to see the good in things.
    ☑️There are many things in life that make you happy, and there are many things that have the opposite effect. If you’re careful to focus on what makes you happy and decide to go out there and do it, then your quality of life can improve dramatically.
    ☑️If you always want what others have, you will never have enough. You will always want more. That’s an endless cycle, and it will never lead to happiness. Instead, learn to realize that what you have is already enough. If you have shelter over your head, food on the table, clothes on your back, and people who love you, you are blessed. You have enough.

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  7. Greetings!!
    My perspective on this post is:
    *Positive people encourage you to grow and become the best version of yourself..So stay with them.
    *Focusing on positive aspects of everything will make you happier in the long term… So… focus on positivity in everything.
    * “Every flower blooms at a different pace.”.. So.. don’t compare yourself and put your efforts to enhance your skills. You are unique and special.
    Regards
    Swaraj Mathur

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  8. According to me,All of us are so occupied in our lives and in chasing our dreams that we struggle to make time for our family. A family is the biggest asset that one could ask for, hence it is important to spend time with loved ones. No matter how busy you are, your family needs you, the same way you need them. Spending time with your family will help you bond and understand one another. If you want to know how does spending time with your family reduce stress, read on to find out!
    We spend a lot of time over the course of our lives focused on making money, getting fit, impressing our bosses, and generally ticking boxes on a bucket list that someone else came up with. When was the last time, though, that you really sat down and thought about what you wanted, and what made you happy?
    Often, the key to happiness isn’t a nice car or a posh house, or even a high powered job. There are many simple things that you can do that could give you a sense of well being and happiness.
    Learning to quiet negative thoughts, and focusing on positive ones will make you happier in the long term. Practice either telling yourself to ‘stop’ when you are thinking negatively, or go one step further and mentally go through a process of discarding those thoughts. It’s often easier to stop ruminating on negative thoughts if you can ‘discard’ them. Yes, the thoughts might come back, but in the short term, you’ll be able to focus on something else. Over time you will get better at stopping those negative thoughts, and you’ll find that they crop up less often. You can use the power of your imagination to think positive thoughts and to motivate yourself too. We all have an imagination locked away in our brains. We were good at using it when we were children, but we have been taught to be ‘responsible’. It’s time to unlock your inner child!

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  9. According to me it’s very important to have patience. There are so many decisions in our life which we take in hurry and later on we regret. Patience helps to create a positive environment around you and makes you happy.

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  10. I would like to adopt point no. 1 from the given checklist that is surround yourself with positive people.Because those people can help you to set your mind and can change your mood with their positive vibes. If your mind is set then sure you would enjoy your life.

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  11. According to me point no.6 is important. Reading motivational books or speeches create a positive and optimistic impact on your life. They boost your confidence and help in developing a positive outlook towards life. Books make you realize how powerful you can be in your life.

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  12. According to me surround your self with positive people and have tight faith on you both are necessary. If you we have faith on our abilities then we can face any problem and surely we will achieve our targets.
    Thanks.
    Regards.
    Mandeep Kaur (KG)

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  13. According to me it’s very important to have patience. There are so many decisions in our life which we take in hurry and later on we regret. Patience helps to create a positive environment around you and makes you happy.

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  14. it’s very important to have patience. There are so many decisions in our life which we take in hurry and later on we regret. Patience helps to create a positive environment around you and makes you happy.

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  15. According to me we should have a hobby to learn new things and we should also read motivational books and articals in this way we can polish our abilities.

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  16. In my point of view postivity is important for happy life. Surround yourself with positive people.If We want to add good habits in ourself…it will definitely come by the association of people having the same habbits
    As Bhagwad Gita says :- Only Association of devotees can make u a perfect devote.Similarly association of positive guys will make the positive atmosphere… And then U will definitely become positive person in ur life.

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  17. Comparison at the most kills optimism as it keep people get panic at one or the other situations which further hinders calmness and makes people mess their own skills.
    Hence to acquire or to attain optimism, one should learn how to interact with esteem and to be bold accepting the mistakes and without lingering on them , just go on and on

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  18. Being good is good for the soul. Choose to surround yourself with ‘good’ people, people that choose to support good causes, people that obey the law, people that are kind. This kind of relates to point one, if you surround yourself with people that do good deeds, are kind to others, care for the environment and other causes that you care about yourself, you will find yourself becoming a better person for it. If you surround yourself by people who are careless, thoughtless, break the law, litter etc you’ll find this will slowly begin to encroach on your lifestyle. Don’t let it. Being good doesn’t mean being boring, it means being a better person.

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  19. Opting a hobby and carry it forward whenever one gets leisure time is a fantastic way to be optimistic as it provides calmness and peace.
    Also, not to compare our skills and be patient to wait for our turn for recognition is also provides contentment

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  20. In my opinion developing a habit because
    hobbies give you an opportunity to enhance your life. Hobbies allow you to destress yourself while remaining mentally productive. Having hobbies promotes better health and may lower the risk of having high blood pressure. Enjoying a few hours of your hobby a week can also reduce the risk of depression and dementia.

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  21. In my opinion point 1,2 and 10 are more important to add in our lifestyle. We should surround ourself with positive people to get positivity from them time to time. Along with it we should hold our faith very very tightly. If we are full of hope, then able to do everything nicely and try to be happy at every movement. Happiness only give strength to complete the things nicely and perfectly.

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  22. Greetings of the day! To me, optimism is something that you live with, whatever the circumstances may be, it’s always with you even through the tough times. One must surround oneself with positive and motivating people and be thankful to the Almighty. Just count your blessings and do not be bothered by the obstacles. Always look at the positivity of the things. Be balanced and do the right.

    Ritika Rana

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