Dear Folks, a charming person is someone who can be okay even when external factors, such as the surroundings and environment, are challenging,” says psychologist Dr. Iris Pachler, “They’re able to find peace and strength from within and also have the ability to be flexible and accepting no matter the situation.” There are great many around us that are constantly amicable in every situation, and although some people naturally have an upbeat disposition, many make particular life choices that help encourage their pleasant persona. If you wish to be someone who is extremely likable, you’ll want to pay attention to the habits of charming people, you too can be someone who is enormously interesting and hugely liked by others. Which of their habits would you consider emulating ?

What do genuinely likable people do?


1. They shift the spotlight to others.

2. They listen a lot more than they talk.

3. They don’t practice selective hearing.

4. They’re thoughtful simply because they want to be and are encouraging.

5. They put their stuff away.(Don’t check your phone. Don’t focus on anything else, even for a moment.)

6. They give before they receive–and sometimes they never receive.

7. They don’t discuss the failings of others.

8. They Pursue Hobbies That Give Them Pleasure.

9. They’re Affectionate

10.They Make Eye Contact with a genuine Smile.

11.They’re Authentic and Straightforward.

84 thoughts on “Dear Folks, a charming person is someone who can be okay even when external factors, such as the surroundings and environment, are challenging,” says psychologist Dr. Iris Pachler, “They’re able to find peace and strength from within and also have the ability to be flexible and accepting no matter the situation.” There are great many around us that are constantly amicable in every situation, and although some people naturally have an upbeat disposition, many make particular life choices that help encourage their pleasant persona. If you wish to be someone who is extremely likable, you’ll want to pay attention to the habits of charming people, you too can be someone who is enormously interesting and hugely liked by others. Which of their habits would you consider emulating ?

  1. According to me point no.1 is true. Genuinely likable people shift the spotlight to others.No one receives enough praise. That means one of the easiest ways to be likable is to tell people what they did well. Wait, you say you don’t know what they did well? Shame on you — it’s your job to know.

    Not only will people appreciate your praise, they’ll appreciate the fact you care enough to pay attention to what they do. And then they’ll feel a little more accomplished and a lot more important, and they’ll love you for making them feel that way.

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  2. According to me most likable people are those who talk less & listen more.People tend to listen to those who choose their words carefully. Someone who’s always sharing their opinion or telling stories may lose people’s interest with time. If you have a tendency to talk too much, you may find yourself constantly sharing information unnecessarily.

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    1. Yes, Shakha mam
      You are right listening is very important.
      Any course or any effort that will lead to listening improvement should do two things:

      1. Build awareness to factors that affect listening ability.

      2. Build the kind of aural experience that can produce good listening habits.

      At least a start on the first of these two educational elements can be made by readers of this article; a certain degree of awareness is developed by merely discussing factors that affect listening ability. Later we shall discuss some steps that might be taken in order to work at the second element.
      In general, people feel that concentration while listening is a greater problem than concentration during any other form of personal communication. Actually, listening concentration is more difficult. When we listen, concentration must be achieved despite a factor that is peculiar to aural communication, one of which few people are aware.

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  3. According to me most likable people don’t discuss the failings of others. Yet it is among our most human tendencies because we don’t like to admit the part we played in failure. Successful people are accountable, and this earns them the respect of others.
    #They Pursue Hobbies That Give Them Pleasure.
    Developing and pursuing a hobby, whether it is as small as knitting a scarf or backpacking for the weekend, has a lot of benefits. This is scientifically proven in various studies that hobbies do make you more productive and happier at work.Having a hobby that we enjoy brings us joy and enriches our lives. So successful people always pursue hobbies which give them pleasure.
    Regards

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  4. According to me the most likable people listen more and speak less..or relevant.they choose the impressive words to speak.
    And i will go with this point also
    They make a eye contact and smile while talking to convey others..in this way you can convey your message to others very effectively..

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  5. Likable people are seen as approachable and personable because they are open-minded and willing to talk to and listen to many different types of people. They avoid having preconceived notions or passing judgment on others, but are willing to hear others out and get different points of view.

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  6. Listen first, then speak.
    So often we are in a rush to get a word in edgewise when we are talking to others. When someone else is speaking, we only half listen while we are contemplating how to respond. By being too quick to insert ourselves into a conversation, we often miss a chance to establish a connection with the other person.

    If you cut into a conversation, you can make the other person feel like you are shutting them down before they have a chance to fully explain.

    Act as if the person you are speaking with is the most important person in the world. Practice actively listening to them — really concentrate on what they are saying. Don’t jump in to offer advice or try to solve a problem. But do ask follow-up questions. This will help them feel heard and let them know that you sincerely took the time to understand what they were saying.

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  7. Likable people are seen as approachable and personable because they are open-minded and willing to talk to and listen to many different types of people. They avoid having preconceived notions or passing judgment on others, but are willing to hear others out and get different points of view.

    Of course you will meet people you disagree with, but the idea is to allow others to have their say, so you can better understand them and make them feel heard.

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  8. Likeable people know who they are. They are confident enough to be comfortable in their own skin. By concentrating on what drives you and makes you happy as an individual, you become a much more interesting person than if you attempt to win people over by making choices that you think will make them like you.

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  9. According to me most likable people are those who talk less & listen more.People tend to listen to those who choose their words carefully. Someone who’s always sharing their opinion or telling stories may lose people’s interest with time. If you have a tendency to talk too much, you may find yourself constantly sharing information unnecessarily

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  10. According to me most likable people are those who talk less & listen more.People tend to listen to those who choose their words carefully. Someone who’s always sharing their opinion or telling stories may lose people’s interest with time. If you have a tendency to talk too much, you may find yourself constantly sharing information unnecessarily

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  11. I’ll go with go with point no.7 and 10 ,First they never discuss the failings of others ,because they never want to demotivate others .And next ,they make eye contact with others while talking,because they are confident enough .When you don’t make eye contact with others during your discussion ,it shows lack of confidence.

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  12. According to me, the most likeable persons listen👂 more and speak🗣🗣 less… They always believe in ❤doing not saying…
    👉Most likeable persons never discuss about failings of others. They give them chance to improve…
    ,👉They make eye contact with a genuine smile😊😊

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  13. According to me, the most likeable persons listen👂 more and speak🗣🗣 less… They always believe in ❤doing not saying…
    👉Most likeable persons never discuss about failings of others. They give them chance to improve…
    ,👉They make eye contact with a genuine smile😊😊

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    1. According to me the most likeable person who listen more and speak less. They choose the impressive words to speak. They make eye contact with genuine smile.

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  14. It’s refreshing being able to laugh over matters, rather than living a rigid, sullen life. Likeable individuals understand how healthy it is to joke every once in a while and don’t sweat the small stuff. They have the ability to focus on the big picture and encourage others to do the same. As a result, likeable people are often resilient and make an effort to celebrate victories in life, big or small. This makes them fun and inspiring individuals to be around!

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