Dear Folks, What is being the best version of yourself? Ever visualised your ideal self? One that you’d be so proud of! The you, minus the bad habits and toxic traits. We all have an ideal self in our mind. Being the best version is building that ‘ideal self’ without losing your own identity. It is like adding values to you. Our physical growth stops completely right after the age of 21. But there isn’t any time limit for our mental and spiritual growth. It develops as long as we feed it. Improving ourselves as we age is essential. Regardless of the amount of happiness and success we receive in life, self-improvement should always be our top priority. Here are my basic 20 tips on becoming the best version of yourself, please advise which of these would work best for you?

Dear Folks, As we raise our children, we fill their proverbial toolboxes with the tools they’ll need to build happy, successful lives.In order for this toolbox to be complete, it’s essential that we give our children the gift of self-esteem. People with high self-esteem like themselves and believe that they are capable and worthy. As a result, they make better choices, become more resilient, and push harder to reach their goals. They’re more likely to be happy, successful, and emotionally healthy. Which of these ways would you use to compliment youngsters that build confidence and call out their strengths ?

Dear Folks, a charming person is someone who can be okay even when external factors, such as the surroundings and environment, are challenging,” says psychologist Dr. Iris Pachler, “They’re able to find peace and strength from within and also have the ability to be flexible and accepting no matter the situation.” There are great many around us that are constantly amicable in every situation, and although some people naturally have an upbeat disposition, many make particular life choices that help encourage their pleasant persona. If you wish to be someone who is extremely likable, you’ll want to pay attention to the habits of charming people, you too can be someone who is enormously interesting and hugely liked by others. Which of their habits would you consider emulating ?

What do genuinely likable people do?


1. They shift the spotlight to others.

2. They listen a lot more than they talk.

3. They don’t practice selective hearing.

4. They’re thoughtful simply because they want to be and are encouraging.

5. They put their stuff away.(Don’t check your phone. Don’t focus on anything else, even for a moment.)

6. They give before they receive–and sometimes they never receive.

7. They don’t discuss the failings of others.

8. They Pursue Hobbies That Give Them Pleasure.

9. They’re Affectionate

10.They Make Eye Contact with a genuine Smile.

11.They’re Authentic and Straightforward.

Dear Folks, The idea of a mentor is an ancient one. In Greek mythology, when Odysseus, King of Ithaca, went to battle in the Trojan War, he placed his friend, Mentor, in charge of his son and his kingdom. Today, Mentor has become synonymous with someone who imparts wisdom to and shares knowledge with a less experienced person. Mentoring relationships are special and often life-changing. If there is one thing we must do: mentor our youth. ( Which of these 9 Traits would you bank upon ? )